When it rains it pours

You know, the saying is really true. I have gone months without having a boyfriend. Then suddenly my theory of the ex boyfriends resurfacing has happened over and over again.
First Instance was my ex bf John- otherwise known as "the grey box." John continues to call me randomly. He was in Vegas recently and called me from there twice in the same week. He struck again last weekend and again last night. I don't even care anymore! His calls are pointless and I've gotten to the point where I'm wondering why he even dials.
Within 30 minutes- I received the Second Instance. This was much bigger of a blow and a complete shocker. Joe had struck with the "I'm thinking about you" line. Out of the blue there he was- thinking about me. After I had already pulled an "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind" and erased him from my brain. Why now I wonder? And where were you exactly that you were thinking of me? We haven't exactly shared memorable moments up until this point. In any case- me being the person that I am, I inquired. I wanted to know everything. Where he had been, how he was, why he hadn't been interested in the past and why is he now. It turns out- this again is a case for Miscommunication Man. I'll quote Joe and sum up the events for you. He said, "it's amazing how two people can think two completely different things and both be completely wrong in what they are thinking."
Words are so powerful. I have mixed feelings right now. Like I said - I already did my best to be "over" him. Now it seems I can't get him out of my head.

the grey box

as i have stated in my previous blogs- all boyfriends resurface eventually. i had an experience again today. My ex bf John im'd me and suggested we meet for a drink last week. I didn't think he was serious so I just blew it off. then again, the grey box appeared. as some of you know (or may not know) if someone isn't on your buddy list, you get a grey box when someone is trying to contact you.
The grey box is a coveted item especially coming from the exboyfriend. It means you have deleted them off of your buddy list and now suddenly they have come back. Resurfacing if you will.
This time the grey box was john again. Suggesting the drink again. I said, "oh you want to meet me for a drink?" not knowing if he was serious or not. He said,"yes, you forgot already from last week?" In my shock, i agreed. I guess we will see if this is a friendly encounter or if this is round 2 of the ex boyfriend conquest. what could this mean? The grey box is a wonderful thing to receive. Especially when you are least expecting it...
to be continued.....